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Sexual fantasies
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I was thinking about sexual fantasies last night, and I got thinking about the differences between fantasy and reality, and such like. And I got sufficiently to do this poll. Please answer as much or as little of it as you feel comfortable with. I'm the only one who'll be able to see your answers and I promise I will neither tell anyone else nor judge you on anything you say here.

(and yes, there probably are lots more interesting questions I could ask here, but I'm having a brain-fart atm)

Poll #244262 Sexual Fantasies

Do you ever fantasise sexually?

No (you can probably ignore the rest of the poll)

When you fantasise, which of the following describe the type(s) of people you fantasise about?

Non-specific people who are less important than the events of the fantasy
made up people imagined in high levels of detail
friends, coworkers, or other people you know but have no romantic or sexual connection with
your partner, partners, or other people with whom you are sexually or romanticly involved

If you checked the 4th option above, would you ever tell the people who you fantasise about that you do so

Yes, whether they want to no or not
Yes, but only if they actually specificly asked me, and assured me they wouldn't mind
No, never

Next up, are you:

a boy?
a girl?
something else?

Elaborate, if you wish to.

Which of the following statements most accurately fits you

I am only attracted to boys and never fantasise about girls
I am only attracted to boys and occasionally fantasise about girls
I am only attracted to boys and frequently fantasise about girls
I am only attracted to girls and never fantasise about boys
I am only attracted to girls and occasionally fantasise about boys
I am only attracted to girls and frequentlyfantasise about boys
I am bisexual/pansexual/omnisexual or some other label which means that I like both boys and girls.

How do you feel that your fantasies relate to what you would actually do in real life? Which of the following statements fit you?

There is nothing that I fantasise about that wouldn't be fairly standard for my actual sex life (or hypothetical one if you don't have a sex life)
I fantasise abouth things that I would happily do, but aren't feasible (eg, would cost a lot of money, or involve other people who wouldn't wish to take part)
I fantasise about things that I think I might like to do but am not sure about, or that I don't want to admit to a partner
I fantasise about things that are appealing, but would have too long-term an effect (some more extreme BDSM, for instance)
I fantasise about things that I would like to do, except for the risk of discovery (eg, sex in public places)
I fantasise about things that would really freak me out if they ever actually happened to me (rape fantasies, for instance)
I fantasise about things that I would have serious moral issues with ever actually doing (rape fantasies from the other end, for instance)
I fantasise about things that would be too dangerous for me to actually do
I fantasise about things that I wouldn't actually do for some reason not listed here


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you have a lot of bisexual or similar people on your friends list.

Or maybe bisexual people are more open to filling in polls? :)

Or my theory that everyone is bisexual is true. ;-)

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I shall refrain from spoiling your moment and stopping your sniggering by actually confirming or denying what that missing word was meant to be. But what I will say is "gragrhrgahgrhgahgrghgahg. why can I not type?" (I'm also constantly cringing at the know/no error in the text of the poll, which I can' correct)

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I think that it's fair to say that "commital" is a significantly more difficult word to spell right than "know" though.

And yes. Yes it should.

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