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Dumb and dumber?
delirium happy
I feel a rant coming on...

Right. I'm smart. I'm not bragging about it, but I am. I breezed through the education system with flying colours, and then went off to Oxford university to discover that I was the most naturally intelligent of those doing my subject at my college (and then I dropped out shortly after, but that's not the point).

So what has all this taught me? Well, it's left me with a fairly good appreciation of who is intelligent and who is dumb. This is not a relative scale. Friends of mine, with low self esteem, sometimes claim that they are dumb. When I tell them that no, they are not, they say that they're not as smart as I am. Big fucking deal. Neither are 95% of the population, and that doesn't mean that they're all dumb. And I'm not as smart as Richard Feynmann, and that doesn't mean I'm dumb. It isn't a competition.

Being smart is not a value of worth, any more than being blonde, tall or female are. It's just the way you are. By and large, the sort of people who do feel that being intelligent makes them superior tend to be, I find, moderately but not spectacularly intelligent -- maybe around the 70th percentile or so. It didn't take me very long to figure out that if I only socialised with people as intelligent as I am that I'd get very lonely before too long.

Nor is intelligence a sure path to success. Speaking as a highly intellignet two time dropout and layabout bum, I think I can say that with a fair degree of certainty.

So, to anyone who thinks that they're dumb (and this is not aimed at any one specific person), stop and think about it. Are you really? Are you even below the 50th percentile? What about the 95th? I think that it's something like 5% at either end which are considered outliers on a normal distribution. It takes all sorts to make up the human population. Society as we know it would be equally screwed with a glut of Einsteins as it would with a glut of manual workers.

And then if you still think that you're dumb, then consider why it bothers you. Very few people are totally hapy with themselves. Personally, I'd like to have slightly wider hips and a better singing voice. But I don't think either of these make me less worthwhile as a person. They just make me someone with the figure of a stick who can't sing. No big deal. And yet intelligence has some sort of stigma attached to it. Smart is good. Sure, and 2 legs bad. Smart is not good. nor is it bad. It just i>is</i>, so try to stop worrying about it?

(and before anyone asks, this is not aimed at any one specific person)

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That too. In fact, "intelligence" on its own is a fairly meaningless conept.

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